I do not know who is this formula.
Do not lose the lesson? But what lesson? All failures, all defeats are painful. Who likes to lose? Who can remain calm face to his misfires? Yet some are doing better than others. They are feeling the pinch at the moment, then out richer story that happened to them. How do they do? They simply learned from what happened ... After
the inconvenience of the failure, the sting of defeat at the heart of self-esteem, they observed and reflected, instead of rehashing uniting their pain or their thoughts of unfairness or bad luck. Then they looked elsewhere. Elsewhere, that is to say later ("if it happens again, what shall I do?"), But differently ("how reconsider everything that happened to me with a look at peace and free from any irritation or all blindness ").
is an important lesson, but we must manage ourselves: the sermonizers irritate us too when we come to fail, even if they are right. And this teaching, we also accept the deepest: the Intellectual understanding is not enough, we must have received the lesson deep, that is to say on an emotional level.
work is immense, exciting and virtually infinite: there are so many lessons from existence! Do not repeat the same mistakes: it is experience. Do not always tremble at the failure, or angry face of imperfection: the decline. There are many others. And when you can not learn the lesson? Well, that's the same message: there are times when you can not out richer failure. It is also a lesson ...
Illustration: a lesson to think it does to prevent again ...
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